
With my last post I needed to vent...like I stated, I was having issues. But apparently, in venting, I hurt my husbands feelings (which is hard to do). He did what I asked him, he helped me get rid of stuff. And as he put it, he did for me what he and I both knew I would never be able to do for myself. And it did feel slightly liberating to be free of all that clutter (although I use that term VERY loosely when referring to adorable clothes). Either way, he was upset that I left it out there for people to comment on his actions. While we may not understand what he did, it does in reality makes sense. I would like to make it up to him by saying 3 nice things about him:
1). Giving - He is the most generous person I have known. He gives of his time, he shares his talents, he uses his energy, to serve in whatever way is needed. Anyone could call him for anything at any time and he would drop what he is doing to go and help them, with no thought of himself. He believes he has truly been blessed, and so he does what he can to be a blessing to others. He just gives - hence the issue with my clothing ;) But seriously, he is an example to me of loving service and selflessness. And I love him for that.
2). Fatherhood - He is an amazing dad to our kids. One of the first things I learned about PJ when I met him was that he wanted to be a dad more than anything. And now that we have children he has stepped up to the challenge and is the teacher, the leader, the nurturer, the disciplinarian, the man that they need him to be. He is more involved and helpful than I could ask for and I cherish the moments when I see him interacting with them. I look to him as an example of how to be patient and how to guide our little ones.
3). Focus - I made the mistake of agreeing with someone who said he was intense. I'm not sure what the difference is but he didn't like the word intense...he likes the word focused. Whatever you call it, he is that. He is driven and can accomplish anything - nothing is too hard for him. He is blunt and honest but people really appreciate his integrity. He is what he is and I love him.
So there you have it - 3 nice things about my PJ. Feel free to add anything to my list :) By the way, my intent really wasn't to get people to leave really nice sweet comments about the wardrobe I pick out - although your sweet thoughts did help me through a tough time so thank you :)
On a very random side note...
While I have found the two shades of lipstick that I love, they are supposed to be long lasting lip color that stays on all day...but for the life of me I can't get them to stay on my lips for more than 3 hours!!! It is a daily struggle. However, the last time Tyler got into my makeup, and did this with my frustrating lipwear, it literally stayed on his face for 3 days before I could get it to come off. Are you serious?!? And so yes, this is what he will look like as we go out in public for the next 3 days (which happen to have some big events for us). Oh well, at least you'll know why he looks like that in our upcoming pictures. Geez!... the irony!