I was cleaning off the text messages on my phone the other day when I ran across a long strand of texts between my older sister Lyndsay and I. It was a conversation we had back in July while I was at my parents house one last time before our move. I had seen a stack of my old Nancy Drew books in my mom's house and had questioned what she was doing with them and could I take them. I learned she had plans to take them out to Lyndsay. What?! So we had the following interaction...
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Lyndsay and I - Christmas 2009 |
ME: Whoa! Hold ur horses... I just learned ur taking my nancy drew books. I'm gonna b needing those back once madison reads them :)
Lyndsay: YOUR Nancy drew?! I believe they were grandma wainwrights and she gave them to me. Did you ever even read... Nancy Drew?
ME: Yes MY nancy drew books. Everyone knows that. Jain even asked me permission to take them years ago and i lovingly had to say no. Those r sentimental because they are prob the last books i ever read for fun ;) So ill share with madison but then i need them back.
Lyndsay: Okay, they are NOT yours. Does mom say they are yours?????
ME: Shes the one that told jain i needed to be consulted on whether she could have them or not.
Lyndsay: This is not right. I will argue this one to the end.
ME: Bring it sista!
Lyndsay: You got it! :S
ME: Big words from 1500 miles away :) Especially when i have them here in my hands as we text ;) whatcha gonna do now??
ME: (after searching the front cover of the books to find only two had names in the front - one with my name and one with hers - but i didn't tell her that part) How did we not put names in r books back then???
Lyndsay: I have no idea about the names. But mom promised them to me so they better be delivered.
ME: Well maybe we should just split them nutso.
Lyndsay: Nutso! You're calling me nutso?! You were the one challenging me from 1500 miles away.
(after a slight time lapse where i was out rooting around in my parents
garage and located more books then mom had previously collected and set
aside to take to Lyndsay)
ME: Well I found all of the books... Mom hadn't. And I'm gonna split them in half. Good deal?
Lyndsay: I guess. Seems fair. Karen just got Madison the secret in the old clock so if you have that one don't give it to us.
ME: So I found the Mandie books too. Did u read those/want some of those?
Lyndsay: Sure. Those were actually mine. I'm pretty sure.
ME: Uh huh. Just like the nancy drew ones were actually yours.
Lyndsay: no, seriously. But you can split them if you want.
ME: Well since i have to split my nancy drew we also have to split ur mandie ;)
Lyndsay: Fair enough.
ME: And dad finally spoke up and quietly admitted he remembers back when mom called and asked my permission to give my books to jain. Just an FYI. But i'm totally dropping it now ;)
Lyndsay: you people are completely crazy. just because mom called you doesn't mean they are yours. you take things remember.
ME: below the belt :(
Lyndsay: i know
***It should be noted that at some point I tried to drag our other sister Katy into the brawl by nonchalantly asking her what she remembered regarding the ownership of the Nancy Drew books. No, she didn't claim they were hers ;) She stayed true to her family role as the sweet peace maker and she kept her opinions neutral :{ No help there.
Sisters... Love them!!! And I guess when it comes to sisters maybe we never really grow up. Such a mature conversation we had. But at least we've learned to resolve our own conflicts ;) And it was all for the sake of these two right?!
Our cutie pie girls, Madison and Brynn...